Mirror To My Twenty Year Old Self

If I could travel backwards in time and give the 20 year old me advice: 

*Stop talking. Start DOING.
*No, they are not all thinking about you. For better or worse. 
*Wear sunscreen. Wear a hat. You'll thank me later.
*Learn about investing. Even if you are broke. You won't always be.
*Idealism is beautiful. Not practical. 
*You're a human being: you're allowed and going to make mistakes. Your character shows up in how you repair and reflect on them. 
*Have fun! But make it YOUR idea of fun. 
*When men tell you to smile, tell them to FUCK OFF.
*When people judge you - it's only a reflection on them, not on YOU.
*Learn to apologize. 
*Learn to stand up for yourself. 
*Learn to listen. 
*Let yourself be innocent. One day that will be gone and you will miss it dearly. Enjoy your innocence while it lasts. 
*Listen to your older self. She knows.